ok so i got it working using this guys code here and fixing the “ws.on” functions and changing server to the one in this page
i got things like knowing when some one joins and leaves and sends a message working so it tells you who and what and i will post my code when i get it all cleaned up to tomorrow 
is it just me or dose the api suck
but i seem to have a large amount of lag between when some one joins and leaves and when it says thy did… like up to a few minutes sometimes ? i am about to go to bed so i have not googled it yet lol